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only for love (a 2022 retrospective)

intensity / moderation

intuition vs execution

intimacies

uncertainty

the optimization drive

not disappointing myself

what changes and what doesn't

ways of thinking about people

alone in my mind

existential kink

stamina

making beautiful things

many lives

lucky

pacing

qualities I like and don't like in people

do what you love but have a contingency plan

take the L

no rules

rejection (in)sensitivity

two years

responsibility

love and (sex in the city)

getting love right

modern malaise

understanding is rare

my shadow

closeness

validation isn’t freedom

is everything copy?

love in the time of hyperfixation

(in)complete understanding

what we find in other people

identity and its discontents

be an asker

no more life as story

safety

newness vs familiarity

unblocking

consistency is proficiency

emotional boundaries

love notes

the agony of eros: on limerence

thoughts on envy + April recommendations

maiden, mother, crone

the agony of eros: dating

original sin

dreaming my own dream

simplicity is difficult

communication on all levels

choosing awareness

spell states

release

what makes me feel grounded

how can we be the right kind of together?

Dear Bear: I got everything I wanted, but I'm still unhappy

how to have healthier relationships (?!)

losing selves

deep work

Dear Bear: Will I ever be loved unconditionally?

Dear Bear: I can't get over my ex

Dear Bear: Why do I feel unlovable?

resistance

it's beautiful, I just don't always see it

love and pain

caring about what other people think

recent thoughts

the yin-yang theory of relationships

do you think about it all the time?

the girl the internet made me

agency/satisfaction

anti-advice + what I've been reading