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what I learned this year

talking to Sasha Chapin about unconventional career paths and lessons in love

bookbear express gift guide 2023

the slow season

repetition is tedious

to be loved is to be changed

protecting flow

how to be productive if you're self-employed

on being critical

time and finitude

through the years

you can't fake the core

notes on serendipity

inarticulable knowledge

criticism/acceptance

sticking it out

megablob friend group

sunday recs: things I consume all the time

in defense of being delusional

therapy as a way of aligning with your subconscious

course correction

in another universe

how to avoid navel-gazing

the right conversations

making and keeping friends

making decisions

nothing personal

knowing what I Iike

different worlds

“Love is friendship on hard mode”: an interview with Henrik Karlsson about his essay Looking for Alice

keeping things organized (even though you have ADHD)

practical magic

patterns and progress

dear bear: what do I do about my situationship?

against disorder

terminal boredom

loving imperfection

the organizing principle

transfiguration

everything I know about love

seeking clarity

competition and criticism

the destiny neurosis

west coast/east coast

securely detached

life on the internet

17 hot takes about dating

double down on what you're good at

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